I had to ask Sydney this morning if he would be upset if dad and I got a divorce. He was not happy with the question and I was not happy asking it. I had showed Sydney a post that Jim had put on the internet. I posted it to my FB page and then he went and deleted it. But a few people I know saw it. Jim was posting to group, Lovers Extreme? And there was a girl who said she was having surgery but would come over to see him right after it. https://www.facebook.com/averiann.elliscasalman
I don't know if this is one of his 10000 cousins he claims to have or not. Anyone know her?***June 6, UPDATE**** I asked Jim who she is and he said that she works at Hayes grocery store in Wynne, I go in there oftern and don't recall ever seeing her at either location.
Anyway, Jim had (I kid you not) over 50 Go Fund Me posts saying that he could not pay for his medication or bills. God Bless Everyone. Now let's get this straight, Jim believes in God but could care less- PERIOD! He rides his cousins(?) shirt tails saying that he and this other guy who I think he said was his cousin founded a church way back when. Sydney knows more about the Bible from me reading it to him for several years every night when I was not working.
We had sever storms in the area the other night and Jim had called me I said I was fine and he said his shed house was lifted up, yeah, right, un hun, okay, bye. He always has to make himself the center of attention. He said his father's car lot was "all but destroyed". I tried calling his sister who runs it with her husband but could never get through; today I left a half hour earlier for physical therapy so that I could go to Colt and see what was left standing. Lo and Behold Jim is there. He came out the door saying that he didn't have money to pay for his phone (Sydney's phone is also shut off) and was coming to check his FB messages since his sister brought in a generator for the business. I went off on him right at the front door. I asked him about this girl, he said he didn't know her and I said that he responded to her-tell me more lies. I asked him why did he post that he "wanted an honest woman and he would treat her the same in return", he said he didn't know why. I went off saying that he came to the house to help me out after surgery but I did all the meals, cooking, cleaning, etc... and that he did nothing, he had major mental issues. I had to be loud over the generator sitting on a trailer just feet from us, I'm sure his family heard everything even if the door was closed.
Therapy went well and it started with a headache and ended with one.
I got a hold of a lawyer that was referred by a friend, waiting for a call back.
I just got the mail and I am just so upset that my PCP Dr Lee is leaving the practice (she may have been called back to active duty) Just when I think I have found the best doctor ever she up's and leaves. I just want to cry
Jim sent me a message to not fight or argue, he was only being nice because he was caught with his hands in the cookie jar. He said he got a check from Missouri from that drunk driver today and he was able to get a phone card. whatever. He wanted to contact legal aide to see if they could do the divorce for next to nothing. He said he was expected to go back to work next month. yeah, sure
